hey there long time no see r talk^^

Quote by mei-sanim not aloud 2 join the Lonely and Depressed group!

And why not?

MEI MEI! I missed you! we haven't spoken in a while so i came here to say HI! lol

wanna be my frist friend?

wow nice page and nice shade of pink and black

hello mei-san ...how are you?...^_^

hiya! long tyme no talkies! well hi!^,~

Quote by mei-sanhello! nice 2 meet every1! can i join? i really luv twilight!

welcome to our group mei-san!

sure we can be friends! See ya around! Oh! I am tasha by the way!

Quote by mei-sanhi! wat do u mean by computer tech? cuz i am really interested w/ my computer! sry but can i pleaz join?

merged: 01-05-2008 ~ 10:56am
is this group alive?

Hey, sorry for not responding sooner, I have been occupied! Yes, the group is active, I just need to get it started! The group is for anyone who has interest in some field or aspect of Computer Technology, typically, if you're in to web design, programming or whatever or even if you wish to discuss computer topics. I will try to get the group going eventually, if everything goes well. *adds you to the group* Welcome to the group!

Quote by mei-sanhiya! thakies 4 posting up in my thread! i really need the support and i now have a shimmer of hope! thanx!

youre welcome, just stay positive and new opportunities will present themselves.

Quote by mei-santhanx 4 replying 2 my thread! but i think that shooting would b a little over reactied!

The problem isn't going to be solved that easy. By your story I take it she's been doing this for a while. For her it's almost a habit and habits can't be broken just like that. Take away the sex and she'll turn suicidal in which case is even worse than what you described. There is little hope for the girl. She needs to be dealt with immediately. AT LEAST they should put her in a harness and keep her locked up in a mental institution. That way she can't hurt herself and it'll teach her how to control her urges.

merged: 01-05-2008 ~ 09:59am

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yeah my sister star called a couple of agencies and they will deal w/ her its just stress 4 me cuz she is one of my friends and i dont like her future

Ok well when they "deal" with her (in whatever way they choose to), let her know you're still there for her. What she really needs is loving friend. Simple counseling won't be enough, she needs to be kept in a secure building without being able to contact her bf. I expect her to find out who made the call and she'll be unrestrictingly angry towards you. She may hate you for it but she'll inevitably learn why you did it. I hope for the best between you two.

merged: 01-05-2008 ~ 10:13am

Quote by mei-sanshe already hates me *cries* yeah ever since i refused pot from her she got toally pissed!

... Have you ever met her personally?

merged: 01-05-2008 ~ 10:24am

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of course! and her BF 2!

Oh... you shouldn't cry over something like that. She got mad because when you refused, she saw that you disagree with her way of life. It's vital for you to know this. She thinks there is nothing wrong with the way she lives when in fact everything is wrong with it. You need to show her that what she is doing is disgraceful and wrong.

merged: 01-05-2008 ~ 10:31am

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thankies! luckily her being mad @ me didnt make me want 2 smoke cuz u noe u can DIE! AHHHHHHHH ok sry a little outbreak is it ok if i call u older brother? (i do this 2 all my MT friends!) but u c im only 11 so i dont have much affect

Just be glad you made the right choice ^_^ And yes you can call me your older brother ^_^ (I seem to be making younger sisters everyday ) Also, you shouldn't think that just because you're 11 that you don't have any effect on people's lives. In fact, you just made my day

merged: 01-05-2008 ~ 10:38am

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thankies! ur awesome older brother! i guess u have also given me support to help my friend now i have more then a shimmer of hope!

I hate to see others suffer so I'm glad I was able to help ^_^ Even if it wasn't much ^_^ I tend to be really critical and straightforward when it comes to situations like these so please pardon what I posted in your thread

merged: 01-05-2008 ~ 10:56am

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dont worry me and my sis have seen more straight forward ppl together so im sorta used 2 it! looking @ ur userpage i c that u promised some1 a special promise! YAY ur getting married! *claps* (sry i get like this 2 my older siblings pleaz dont get offended) u noe one of rains friends (rain is my foster sister and star is my real sister/ gaudian but not anymore) got married 2 her high skool teacher when she waz 16 scary huh?

I did make that promize Thing is that we still have many years before we actually do get married. I can relate to your excitedness. I want my older sister (not blood sister) to get married one day too but she's anti-love or something. She rejects the idea of it Plus her self-esteem isn't really what you would call great so it's just less of a chance she'll want to be with someone I don't get her at all. She's pretty (although thin... very thin) and is fun to talk to yet she still says nobody would ever want her '

Depending on how old the teacher was, I wouldn't say it was that creepy. However, the fact that she got married at the age of 16 is beyond me =.=" Too young to get married is what I believe.

merged: 01-05-2008 ~ 11:09am

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ur really gonna get married! YAY! i tried 2 persuade my older brother (MT brother) 2 get married 2 my older sister (MT sister) they wur perfect 4 each other and they lived in the same neighborhood but he dumped her sniff sniff

the teacher was 34 so its creepy 4 me...

the legal age 2 marry in japan is 16 so she married him while she was in high skool

Haha, maybe he didn't see what you saw

That is creepy VERY creepy Did the thought that he might be a pedophile ever cross her mind?

Well I have to get going, been on too long See you tomorrow Mei-chan!